Social distancing takes a whole new twist when loved ones must share a visit through a window. Window visits are a harsh reality in our government's pandemic response to protect the elderly in nursing homes and living centers from Covid-19 infection. Reality truly hit my heart as I visited my precious Mama through a window at her assisted living memory care facility. I thought I understood the experience of visits through a window, but that is when I was the "insider" Now I was the visitor on the outside of the glass. The separation was more that a pane of glass. If there are two sides to every story, in this case there are two experiences from the inside and the outside of the window visit, the frustration from the inside and the emptiness felt on the outside of that window. How can I help? This is a problem that must be solved. Until solved, at least I can offer some ideas to enhance the experience and make the best of these window visits. More to come... I always have ideas!